Hope Bridge Cards

Finding hope many times comes from seeking truth about your circumstances. Sometimes it’s a matter of looking at your situation from a different perspective or with a different attitude. Hope Bridge cards are a regular deck of 52 playing cards with the four different suits hosting four different themes of Scripture known to help us see life from God’s perspective. The HEARTS all refer to Scriptures talking about God’s love for us, aka “The Gospel”. CLUBS outline God’s expectations of our reactions to His love for us. The DIAMONDS refer to passages about Heaven. SPADES, list Scriptures about forgiveness, both God’s forgiveness for us and our forgiveness for others. These four concepts give us the core truths about every situation in our lives. Both good and bad, both future and past, both for us and others. God loves us no matter what, but His ability to bless us is related to our desire to respond appropriatly to His love. His grace is free, but it’s not cheap! Heaven is a real place where sin, sickness and sorrow will not exist. But obviously we aren’t there yet. Many times the best part of a vacation destination is our preparation to go. That is true about this life. Take some time to read, think and anticipate heaven. Probably the best and hardest part of applying God’s truth to our lives is how He desires to forgive us and how that will renew in us a desire to forgive others. Hope may be found in the worst of situations when you gain an eternal perspective understanding that there is a battle for your soul and God’s love will go anywhere to rescue you and refuse to leave you where He found you. You may become so familiar with His love and grace that you grow sick of sin and would rather forgive your enemies that get revenge. Now that’s worth hoping for, worth working toward, worth betting on!

Have some fun, play your favorite card game and build a Hope Bridge.

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HOPE BRIDGE
Bereavement (base we walk on) = daily choices to keep going Hope (cables that lifT us up) = that mysterious lift that carries the weight when we feel weak

Bereavement (base we walk on) = daily choices to keep going Hope (cables that lifT us up) = that mysterious lift that carries the weight when we feel weak

In HOsPicE we talk alot about bereavement, grief and mourning.  Grief is that gut wrenching emotional pain we feel at a significant loss.  Mourning is the process of ritual and expression to help us work our way through pain.  Bereavement is the daily getting up and choosing to not quit. It's choosing to eat when you don't feel like it.  Go meet with a new friend when you would rather stay home, writing down your thoughts, reading a supportive book, maybe praying and seeking out some help from others that have walked a similar journey. It's leaving a place you can't stay (life with your loved one by your side)  toward a place that can be OK, (life with your loved one only in your memory) maybe... sometimes (your loved one without pain). But that takes time, other people, experimenting with some new thoughts, new ideas and maybe most importantly some hope along the way.  Ultimately our loss doesn’t always have the last word on our lives. 

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Death is the Beginning of New Life
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The human body we deal with in this life tends to be perishable, weak, natural and is ultimately laid down dishonorably. It takes effort to fight that trend of decline.  So many times the care givers are pushed into realms of helping those weak and dying deal with very "dishonorable" situations, but we do it with one eye and our hearts focused on the eternal soul. We want those suffering to consistently be reminded that this struggle is temporary, whether in this life or into eternity with God, the extreme low of dishonor our bodies may drag us through  is counter balanced eventually with an extreme high of glory with eternal bodies that will be resurrected as was Jesus'!   We must keep our eyes on the mystery of the human soul and the loving redemption that God has ultimately promised in eternity.   Our suffering is temporary.  our mission is compassion. Our future is glory! “What no eye has seen, nor ear heard, or the heart of man imagined, what God has prepared for those who love him” 1 Cor. 2:9

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Change Your Words - Change Your World!

The Bible says "A word fitly spoken is like apples of gold in a setting of silver."  Pr. 25:11  Elsewhere it says  "Let no corrupting (decaying, discouraging) talk come out of your mouths, but only such as is good for building up, as fits the occasion, that it may give grace to those who hear." Eph. 4:29

A major part of learning to Change Your Words in order to Change Your World is learning to complete  the story that is running in their mind to run in your mind as well. It's called "empathy" - the ultimate power to enable change.  

"Cognitive-Behavioral Therapy" is a relatively short-term, focused psychotherapy for a wide range of psychological problems including depressionanxiety, anger, marital conflict, loneliness, panicfearseating disorderssubstance abuse, alcohol abuse and dependence and personality problems. The focus of this therapy is on how you are thinking, behaving, and communicating today rather than on your early childhood experiences that may have some bearing on what you are thinking/doing. We can change the former, not the later. https://www.cognitivetherapynyc.com/What-Is-Cognitive-Therapy.aspx

As medical, social and spiritual professionals trying to postively help our patients we frequently find ourselves trying to say negative things in positive words.

Negative Examples:

  • "If you smoke AND use your oxygen at the same time you're gonna blow us both up.  Stop it!"

  • "If you and your caregiver can't keep your meds straight then we can't renew your prescriptions."

How can we change our words?

1. Time and place. Make sure you choose a good time and place. If you are giving constructive criticism about something that has led you to having a strong emotional reaction wait until you are away from the situation that is bothering you. Give yourself time to calm down before describing your concerns. Don’t wait until the next time the situation occurs to confront the behavior.

2. Describe the behavior you are trouble with rather than labelling the person. For example: “When you smoke with the Oxygen on you are placing yourself and all those around you in very a dangerous situation” rather than: “What are you, an idiot?”

3. Describe your feelings (using “I” statements) without blaming the other person. For example: “I feel angry when...” rather than: “You make me angry”.

4. Ask for a specific change. If you just make a complaint without giving alternative suggestions you don’t give the person any help in knowing how to change the behaviour. For example rather than saying: “I can’t stand your loud music” you might say: “I find the loud music really disturbing could you please turn it down after 8.00pm?”

5. Specify both the positive consequences if the person does meet your request for change as well as the negative consequences if they don’t make the changes.

6. Be realistic in the changes you are suggesting and the consequences if they do not. Do not make empty threats. For example you wouldn’t say: “I will throw away your radio if you don’t turn the music down”.

7. Ask the other person how they feel about what you have just said. Being assertive is about having an equal interaction. Be careful this doesn’t end up as an exchange of criticisms.

8. Try and end on a positive note. If appropriate add a positive statement of your feelings towards the other person.

A Prayer - Dear God, Please make my words a source of hope, kindness and healing.  Help me to evaluate "the well" in my heart from which my words come.  Please help me to make sure my intentions are pure, my words are compassionate and their affects are hopeful;.

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Change...

Change is hard!  While Isaiah & 1 & 2 Kings were written to God's people when they were being punished for having consistently walked away from God and His word.  Jeremiah and 1 & 2 Chronicles were written to those that had been in exile for several years.  The books cover the same history but have a different purpose.  Jeremiah and the Chronicles are trying to prepare people that felt abandoned by God, "picked on because of their forefathers sins" you might say, God was trying to explain history with a backdrop of hope.  In so many words - "change your habits I have created you to live for better things than this".  How do we keep our goals, or new wholesome habits we made for the New Year.  One way is to fortify our hope.  It has been said, "hope is like oxygen, you don't really miss it until you don't have it and you really can't live but a minute or two without it."   In hospice some of our greatest challenges is to help people see hope in spite of being surrounded by symptoms of death.   Is Jeremiah's words vain or hopeful? What is to be our focus that brings hope when the doctor says, hospice might be a good option for you now? Jeremiah 29:11 "For I know the plans I have for you, declares the LORD, plans for welfare and not for evil, to give you a future and a hope."

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7/23 Elements of Discipleship - Discernment
  • THIS WEEK'S PLAY LIST: YOUTUBE 

  • THIS WEEK’S BIBLE READINGS    July 16 - July 23,  John 12:1-26– Col. 3, 

  • NEXT WEEK’S BIBLE READINGS  July 24 - 30,  John 12:27-50 – Col. 4, 

SERMON IN A NUTSHELL:  If our Christian life is like a journey, and it is... If we are constantly making major life choices, and we are... If someone is always giving us input, and they are... then how do we discern who to listen to? Discerning the voice of the Good Shepherd is a vital discipline. He doesn't just lead us into comfortable places.   The Good Shepherd's voice is familiar to those who have spent time listening to Him in virtually every kind of circumstance. The disposition with which we live our life is a telltale sign of to whom we are listening, not so much our comfort zone or a lack of life struggles. 

TEXTS: John 10:1-16Psalm 23Galatians 5:16-25; Ephesians 5:15-21

7 Questions for Reflection

  1. What kind of relationship does this parable suggest between the sheep and the shepherd?

  2. How does Jesus expand the concept of His being a Shepherd?  John 10:7-21

  3. How did people respond to Jesus’ teachings about sheep and the shepherd?

  4. How do you try to nurture your relationship with Jesus Christ so that you can discern His leading?

  5. What kinds of circumstances does Psalm 23 suggest our Shepherd might lead us through?

  6. According to Galatians 5:16-25 what are some cultural indicators that we are following the Good Shepherd also known as “Keeping in step with the Holy Spirit”?   And what are some indicators that we are not following the Good Shepherd?

  7. How should we then walk, learning to discern the voice of our Shepherd? Ephesians 5:15-21

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7/23 A Labyrinth, a Journey Discerning the Voice of the Good Shepherd

Discerning the Voice of the Good Shepherd ...one step at a time, one day at a time, one verse at a time, one crisis at a time, one story at a time, one season at a time, one decision at a time!

Eph. 5:15-21 "Look carefully then how you walk, not as unwise but as wise,16 making the best use of the time, because the days are evil.17 Therefore do not be foolish, but understand what the will of the Lord is. 18 And do not get drunk with wine, for that is debauchery, but be filled with the Spirit, 19 addressing one another in psalms and hymns and spiritual songs, singing and making melody to the Lord with your heart, 20 giving thanks always and for everything to God the Father in the name of our Lord Jesus Christ, 21 submitting to one another out of reverence for Christ."

 

TLCC’s Labyrinth—  is focused on the cross.  Starting at the bridge head west toward the road. As we begin life we see the cross as a reflection in the lives of our parents.

 

By the time we enter school we zigzag through life learning from our parents as we go to church, youth group, church camp and VBS learning about the cross. By the time we have finished 6th grade we are well aware of right and wrong and hopefully ready to contemplate our personal commitment to Christ and baptism. Through this we identify with his death, burial and resurrection to a new life in Christ. Ultimately through His grace and our decision to embrace Jesus Christ we resolve to make the Cross & new life our life’s pursuit.

Our life in Christ begins, sometimes feeling intentional, at other times feeling random in direction.

As we enter mid-life we begin to accept that sometimes we can’t see the cross, but in faith we learn that it never moves, it is us that hides, not the cross. We allow some things to come between us.  Wait for it…. Wait for it! Repentance, celebration, prayer, meditation and other spiritual disciplines make sure we never ultimately loose the influence of His work in our life.

 

As we leave mid-life we enter a time of looking over at those younger prodding along at a distance. We long to help, enjoy and be a part of their path but we whimsically look on at a distance.  It’s not that we wish we were there, we wish we could help them avoid consequences of bad decisions. The best we can do now is to encourage anyone that will listen. Most importantly we must be evidence to them that spiritual success is worth pursuing!

 

By the time we reach the “Sr. Adult” stage we are understanding more and more that life is preparing for our next life. The way is narrow, the most dominant sight for those that know Jesus becomes the cross.  Finishing well becomes the priority.  The power, the lure, the anticipation of what lies beyond the cross affects you everyday because the sensations of mortality long to control our soul. But hope and faith cries out for the peace that Jesus secured on the cross and from the empty tomb .  The only other option is fear and depression. You must learn now to trust that God will finish the work He has begun in the lives of your loved ones.  Spiritual disciplines throughout the Journey will help us discern His plan and learn to trust in his eternal purpose.  Therein lies our ability to sing when the time comes "It Is Well with My Soul."

 

Celebration, spirit-filled living that shows deep gratitude for the richness of God’s love and mercy. Jn 15:5-7 

Prayer, allowing the Holy Spirit to cultivate a deeper understanding of what it is to be in communion with Him.  Mt 6:9-13

Worship, true heart expression of adoration, gratitude and appreciation demonstrated through song, prayer, writing, serving, etc. … not  just an event but a lifestyle.  Psalm 33:1-3

Study, to prayerfully ‘wrestle’ with the Word of God, in all it’s teaching of truth, love, grace and holiness.  Ps 1:2-3; Jn 20:31

Calendar, The calendar you live reflects His Lordship of your life, not man’s ‘lordship’ over you. Ecc. 3: Mt. 7:24-27  Check out some ideas at: “A Family Guide to the Biblical Holidays

Sabbath, to rest in the Lord outside of our “todo” list.  Dt 6:4-9 2 Co 7:1 

Fasting, trusting in the strength of the Spirit from immediate gratification. Ps 1:2; Mt 4:4; Mt 6:16

Meditation, focused reflection on the truth of God’s Word and allowing the Spirit to sanctify us into His likeness.  Ps 19:7-11;  Jn 17:17-18  

Solitude, to be away from the multiple layers of noise…seeking stillness and quiet with the Lord. Ps 46:8-10; Mk 1:35-38

Contemplation, to reflect on the working of the Spirit in our life: heart, mind and soul. Ro 12:1-2; Col 3:1-2

Intimacy w/the Lord, To grow in oneness with Him in spirit, mind and action.. His Word in our heart and seen in our life.  Jn 13:34-35;  Heb 3:1

 

Dr. James Dobson’s Method of Listening to God... is a simple, very practical way of praying to help him listen to God and receive his guidance:

“I get down on my knees and say, “Lord, I need to know what you want me to do, and I am listening.  Please speak to me through my friends, books, magazines I pick up and read, and through circumstances” (quoted by Dallas Willard in Hearing God, p. 199).

  • The Celebrations Begin (What might you celebrate on the journey with HIM?)

  • The Challenges Begin (What are some key challenges you might face with HIM?)

  • The Study Begins (What are some important topics you will likely need to study along your journey through life with HIM?)

  • The Decisions Begin (What are some key decisions you might make with HIM?)

  • The Responsibility Begins (What are some key responsibilities you will likely face with HIM?)

  • The Opportunities Begin (What are some key opportunities you anticipate having with HIM?)

 

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7/2 Elements of Discipleship - Citizenship
  • THIS WEEK'S PLAY LIST: YOUTUBE 

  • THIS WEEK’S BIBLE READINGS    June 26 - July 2,  John 11:1-37; Col. 1, 

  • NEXT WEEK’S BIBLE READINGS  July 3 - 9, John 11:38-57;  – Col. 2, 

SERMON IN A NUTSHELL: 

As Americans we find authorities, kingdoms and laws in conflict.  As Christians we must clarify our identity and prioritize our citizenships.  In nationalism there is a tendency to tie our identity to whatever our national leaders say will secure our nation. When hearts and heads of national leaders don’t find their identity in Jesus’ Kingdom there will be confusion and conflict for Christians.  When patriotism (love of country and virtues that secure our nation) are identified with the higher authority of Christ’s Kingdom there will be peace and confidence even amidst the confusion and conflict in our world.  A key building block of discipleship is to keep our identity as citizens in proper order.  Christ’s Kingdom before our national identity is a must and very subtly misconstrued.

TEXTS: John 18:28-40; Phil 3:20; Rom. 6:16; Rom. 13:1-7

Nationalism = the policy or doctrine of asserting the interests of one's own nation viewed as separate from the interests of other nations or the common interests of all nations. (The love for a nation and it’s success is the ultimate good)

Patriotism = Love of country; devotion to the welfare of one's compatriots; the virtues and actions of a patriot; the passion which inspires one to serve one's country. (The love for the virtues and patriots with like passions that unite a nation comprise the ultimate good.)

Questions to Reflect Upon

6 Questions for Reflection (Included in the bulletin)

  1. Isn’t it interesting that the Jewish leaders didn’t want to be contaminated from celebrating the Passover (Sacrifice of the Lamb) and thus wouldn’t go into the Roman courtyard. Meanwhile they are trying to manipulate the Roman law to “sacrifice THE LAMB”.

  2. How do we tend “work” our nation’s laws for our benefit while ignoring the will and work (the Kingdom) of God?

  3. Taking into consideration that Pilate saw the Jewish leaders not wanting to be “defiled” by his courtyard but wanted to force Him to convict and crucify Jesus, can you see why he would say/ask “What is truth?”

  4. When you watch the national news what makes you feel cynical about “the truth?”

  5. How might our political problems be addressed if everyone would focus first on their identity in Christ?

  6. How can we as Christians live amidst nationalistic conflicts by keeping our identity in Christ?

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6/28 Aging Gracefully

Grandpa once told me "Getting old ain't for sissies!"  It's not just the physical and emotional changes that take place.  I am pondering the spiritual changes too!  Paul told Titus to "Teach the older men to exercise self-control, to be worthy of respect, and to live wisely. They must have sound faith and be filled with love and patience."

It seems to me that the older us guys get the more we tend to lean one direction or the other. Toward God's goodness or our "badness" to accomplish our heart's passions.  It seems much easier to rely on our character weaknesses like selfishness, manipulation, passive aggressive, victimization or whining than to recognize our weaknesses and run to God.  Where else do the common terms like "Old Cogger", "Old Geezer", "Old Grouch" come from? 

If I'm going to be "worthy of respect" I will have to capitalize on my faith that God covers my weaknesses and calls me way from them. I must constantly remind myself that He will persistently walk me toward my strengths if I will follow Him. I must be FILLED (yes caps) FILLED with love , patience and self control.  Otherwise I will begin to live life feeling entitled, selfish and "grouchy".   Thanks Grandpa you were a great example and fondly remembered by your Grandsons and Greatgrandchildren.  

Aging gracefully... not easy.  It ain't for sissies, but I am reminded that Ruby deserves the best!

 

My take away is this... The older I get the easier it is to rely on deeply hidden character flaws to accomplish my plans, spiritual or not.  I must maintain "alone time in the cave with God listening to the still small voice" in order for me to keep my head and heart on straight.  If our wives, children, grandchildren can't see it in us they will look elsewhere! 

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6/4 Elements "Focus"
  • THIS WEEK'S PLAY LIST: YOUTUBE 
  • THIS WEEK’S BIBLE READINGS    May 29 - June 4,  John 9
  • NEXT WEEK’S BIBLE READINGS  June 5 - 11,  John 13 
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SERMON IN A NUTSHELL: Some people are blind, but want to see the truth… others can see, but refuse to see the truth.  They will get their wish!  People that want to see how Jesus is working in their lives and in the lives of this church will see that. People who get distracted in their spiritual walk by focusing on human rules or comparing themselves to other people will live in anger and fear. Those watching for Jesus' work and word will be inspired, challenged and rejoice in their growing faith.

TEXT: John 9

Questions to Reflect Upon

5 Questions for Reflection (Included in the bulletin)

  1. How would you summarize Jesus/John’s thoughts in John 9 according to vss. 39-41

  2. What did the Pharisees seem to focus on and what emotion/action resulted? Jn. 9:13-17, 24-29

  3. What did the blind man’s parents seem to focus on and what emotion/action resulted? Jn. 9:18-23

  4. What did the blind man seem to focus on and what emotion/action resulted? Jn. 9:8-12, 24-38

  5. When it comes to life situations you are living today upon what are you focused and what emotions/actions do you anticipate will result?

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5/28 "The Devil"
  • THIS WEEK'S PLAY LIST: YOUTUBE 
  • THIS WEEK’S BIBLE READINGS    May 22-28, John 8:42-59
  • NEXT WEEK’S BIBLE READINGS  May 29 - June 4,  John 9:1-17;  - Eph. 1-2, 

SERMON IN A NUTSHELL: It’s too easy to be familiar with talking points about the history that we choose to remember ("Father Abraham") and then choose our loyalties based upon our self-centered perspectives rather than the truth.  It's fine to memorialize our loved ones, but be careful not to idolize them. The bottom line is that we either line up with Jesus or we don’t.  Those who believe in Jesus line up with Truth, those who don't scoff at those who tell the truth and then line up with the Devil!

TEXT: John 8:31-59

BULLETIN BLANKS:

  • Dangers of being Mesmerized by Memories
  • A tendency to categorize, scrutinize and minimize with my perspective in the center.
  • A tendency to choose who’s in and who’s out by where I am.
  • A tendency to demonize those that are “out”.
  • A tendency to not listen to those that are “in”.

Pre- Sermon Reflection:

  1. What's the difference between the Pharisees saying Jesus "has a demon" and Jesus saying "you are of your father the Devil"?

Post- Sermon Reactions:  

  1. Identify 2 or 3 individuals you typically think a lot about on Memorial Day.  
  2. What are some things that make them special?  
  3. What are some lessons you can learn from  them, both as good examples and as bad?                                                      

Prepare for Next Week:

  1. What are a couple of "no-negotiation" core values upon which you seek to build your family?

ONLINE RESOURCES:

 

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5/21 "Abraham"
  • THIS WEEK'S PLAY LIST: YOUTUBE 
  • THIS WEEK’S BIBLE READINGS     May 15-21,   John 8:31-41
  • NEXT WEEK’S BIBLE READINGS   May 22-28 – John 8:42-59

 

SERMON IN A NUTSHELL: Is your faith based in a religion or in a relationship? One who is a disciple of a religion focuses on rules with the purpose of controlling others and manipulating circumstances to serve himself. One who is a disciple of a personal Savior focuses on a relationship that inspires a life of grateful trust in the one who saved him. The Identity of Jesus challenged the Jewish religion of man-made traditions. Jesus challenged their claim to authority and again clearly confirmed his claim to be Deity, God in the flesh, using the name reserved for Yahweh, Jehovah, Creator. I AM.

TEXTS: John 8:31-59

  • vs. 31-36 - Sons vs Slaves, Hebrews 3:1-6
  • Vs. 37-47 - Paternity Test, Gal. 3:8-14, 26-29; Acts 7:51-53
  • Vs. 48–59 - Identity rooted in Infinity “Before Abraham was born, I AM!”, Col. 1:15-17; Heb. 1:1-3; Eph. 1:3-6; Matt. 22:31-32; Heb. 13:8

BULLETIN BLANKS

  • *Jesus says that truth will set a person free,
  • *and that knowing the truth is tied to being Jesus’ disciple,
  • *and being Jesus’ disciple is dependent  on whether you hold to his teaching.
  • *Jesus points out that spiritual parentage is what determines our destiny and is revealed in how we live our lives.
  • *Whether we love Jesus and make room for His Word living by faith, determines our spiritual parentage.
  • *Jesus’ Identity is intimately tied to the One who operates in Infinity. I AM. The ever-present One who reigns over all creation, has come to give eternal life to those who would embrace his Son.

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5/14 "Who's Your Mother?"

TEXTS: John 19:25-27;  Mt. 12:50; Gal. 4:22-24, 27

Pre- Sermon Question: Describe a person in your life, a female, that was a person of Grace.  How about a lady that tended to focus on lists, rules and shame?

SERMON IN A NUTSHELL: Some of the godliest mothers didn’t “deliver” their children into this world but rather introduced and nurtured them in the Lord.  Scripture doesn’t describe the results of John and Mary’s surrogate relationship, but it does describe its level of commitment, complete forever.  Jesus made it very clear that any relationship is second to our relationship with Him.  Paul made it clear that some mothers may be viewed as giving us birth to a spiritual freedom, while others may tend to lead us into a type of bondage.  Have you pondered, found gratitude for, and expressed appreciation to your “Mother in the faith?”

Post- Sermon Reaction:  Make a list of Christian women that down through the years have been "motherly" toward you and has influenced you greatly toward a vital relationship in Christ. (not just memorizing Scripture)                                                                                                                                                                                                      

Prepare for Next Week:

  •  Of all the "Patriarchs" described in the Bible is there one with which you most identify?  Which one?  Is that a healthy identification or an unhealthy one? What could make the difference?

ONLINE RESOURCES

  • Got Questions: John introduction
  •  The Gospel of John on video
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  • I am the light of the world - whoever follows me will not walk in darkness
  • Unless you believe that I am he you will die in your sins.
  • Much confusion is rooted in willful ignorance
  • Your choice of identity affects your ability to understand.
  • When you have lifted up the Son of Man, then you will know ...that I do nothing on my own authority

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  •  If Jesus?

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5/7 "Look Up so you can Look Down - Walking in the Light!"

TEXTS: John 7:37-39; 8:12-30; James 3:13-18

Pre- Sermon Thought:

  •  What gives you a sense of identity? How has your identity affected your perspective? How has that perspective influenced any major decisions you have made this past year?

Sermon in a Nutshell: 

  • The context from which you look at facts will profoundly influence what you see and how you interpret it. Ultimately that context of your perspective will affect every choice you make. If you look at Jesus and His purpose from “the world’s” perspective you will not see His deity nor appreciate His work and certainly not apply yourself to His purpose.  If you look at Jesus and His purpose from “heaven’s” perspective you will define everything by His sovereignty and embrace His will, His work. Therefore... "Look up so you can look down and walk in the light."

Post- Sermon Action:

  •  Using James 3:13-18 define the context of your perspective; do you look at God through the eyes of the world? Or do you look at the world through the eyes of Jesus? 

Bulletin Blanks

  • I am the light of the world - whoever follows me will not walk in darkness
  • Unless you believe that I am he you will die in your sins.
  • Much confusion is rooted in willful ignorance
  • Your choice of identity affects your ability to understand.
  • When you have lifted up the Son of Man, then you will know ...that I do nothing on my own authority

Prepare for Next Week:

  •  Has there been a particular female that you might consider as a "Mother" to you in your faith?  Have you expressed your appreciation to her?

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4/23 "Where Are Your Accusers?"
  • THIS WEEK'S PLAY LIST: YOUTUBE 
  • THIS WEEK’S BIBLE READINGS    April 17 - 23,   John 8:1-11
  • NEXT WEEK’S BIBLE READINGS  April 24 - 30, John 8:12

TEXTS: John 8:1-11De.17:7; 22:22; 19:15Romans 16:17; 1 Corinthians 5; Galatians 6:1; 2 Thessalonians 3:6,14; Titus 3:10; 2 John 9-11;  Matthew 15:14; 23; John 8:44,55; 9:41

IN A NUTSHELL:  Jesus doesn’t discount sin, nor does he just ignore it, he pays for it so we don’t have to. Sin separates us from God, how could he just overlook it? It also separates us from each other. Everyone is focused on the woman caught in adultery, but what about the wife and children of the dad that has gone awol?  But it is also important to realize He DOES NOT prefer one sin over another. An unfaithful heart is no less damaging than a critical one!

 HIS LIGHT & LIFE:

  1. What other “Jesus stories” teach a disposition of grace over criticism? Lk 19:1-10; Lk 7:36-50; Mt. 9:1-8
  2. Where else do we see the religious leaders trying to “trap” Jesus? Lk. 20:20-38; Mt. 22:15; Mk. 12:13-17
  3. What should have been done if someone was “caught in the very act of adultery”?  De. 22:22; 19:15
  4. Is if fair to say that Jesus does not expect us to hold each other accountable to righteousness? Romans 16:17; 1 Corinthians 5; Galatians 6:1; 2 Thessalonians 3:6,14; Titus 3:10; 2 John 9-11;  Matthew 15:14; 23; John 8:44,55; 9:41

HIS LIGHT IN MY LIFE:

  1. Think back to your last debate with someone about a moral issue… what was their sin?  What inappropriate attitudes did you bring to the debate?
  2. What sins do the average “church goers” spot in others and frequently hold them accountable?
  3. What sins do the average “church goers” tend to excuse in themselves (ourselves)?
  4. How can we as a church nurture dominant attitudes of grace, anticipating redemption while not relaxing our moral code of holiness?

Bulletin Blanks: 

  • This story is consistent with Jesus’ disposition.
  • It is easier to see the sins of others than our own.
  • The disposition of legalism is criticism.
  • The disposition of grace is redemption.

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4/16 “Nicodemus & the Cross”

TEXT:  John 3; 7:50-52; 19:39,

IN A NUTSHELL:  Several weeks ago we met Nicodemus coming to Jesus at night, out of sight of his fellow Pharisees. He appeared to be trying to figure out who Jesus was and why he was saying and doing the things that he was.  Today we see Nicodemus slow but progressive decision to come out of the closet with his faith.  It was clearly a process. In Jn. 7:50 we see Nicodemus thinking for himself, low drama, high logic. By John 19:39 Nicodemus is overwhelmed with the reality of who Jesus is, what his closed minded friends had done and how Jesus suffered and died. It seems Nicodemus lost interest in his old way of life and became overwhelmed with the strength to live out a “Born Again” life. Nicodemus' values, mind and heart were changed by the Gospel!  It is an accurate view of Jesus' cross and our sin that finally enables us to come to a saving faith in Christ!

HIS LIGHT & LIFE:

  1. A significant fact about John's writing is that he often uses the common "double meaning" as a play on words to teach truths.  (See below "A Very Punny Gospel") How is that significant when Jesus says we must be born (again/from above)?  (Jn. 3:1-21)
  2. Calling someone a "Galilean" was viewed as an insult, insinuating they were gullible, uneducated.   Was that Nicodemus' problem? (Jn. 7:50-52)
  3. What do you imagine Nicodemus' colleagues were doing while he was preparing Jesus' body for burial?

HIS LIGHT IN MY LIFE:

  1.  Have you had any things that have "amazed" you about Jesus but didn't convince you to give your life to Him?  What do you like about his teachings? What makes you hesitant? 
  2. Do you ever wonder why Jesus, his name, his teachings are so divisive? 
  3. What about Jesus' life, his teachings, his ministry has made you decide he is worth sacrificing everything else to follow Him?

Bulletin Blanks: 

1. Powerful "life-questions" may introduce you to Jesus.

2. Serious "life-injustices" may draw you closer to Jesus.

3. Profound "life-suffering" can force you to change your loyalties.

4. The resurrection is the evidence that everything said about the cross is true!

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4/9 The Feast of Tabernacles (The Point)

IN A NUTSHELL:  Jesus promised the woman at the well living water which would quench her thirst in such a way that she would never thirst again. Now, makes an even bolder statement at the feast of tabernacles. Along with the ceremonial water libation, Christ declares to them (and to us) that He is the water of life and the only one who can satisfy.

 

HIS LIGHT & LIFE

  1. Why do many of the people think that Jesus is probably not the Messiah? (v. 27)

  2. What is Jesus’ response? What do they not understand about Him? (V. 28)

  3. According to verses 30 & 44, they were unable to lay a hand on Jesus. Why?

  4. Why were the guards were also unable to seize Jesus when they were told to arrest Him? (V. 31, 45-56)

  5. What does Jesus promise to those who come to Him? What does He mean by it?

  6. V. 38: Does the river (streams) of living water flow from God or man or both? What do you think this verse means?

 

HIS LIGHT IN MY LIFE

  1. What evidence or experience convinces you that Jesus really was sent from God?

  2. Why do some people hear Christ’s message and reject it, while others hear the same message, believe and are faithful?

  3. What is Jesus’ invitation in verses 37-39, and how does it speak to you today?

  4. How do we “drink” what Jesus is offering?

  5. How are these verses foundational to real faith(fulness) and growth of the kingdom?

 

Bulletin Blanks: 

1. God is ALWAYS in CONTROL.

2. Are you  REALLY THIRSTY for Christ?

3. What does it mean for us to DRINK CHRIST IN?

4. We DRINK the Living Water when we IDENTIFY with Christ in BAPTISM, and His SPIRIT quenches our soul’s thirst.

5. It’s not about us being HAPPY… it’s about the KINGDOM being BUILT.

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4/2 The Feast of Tabernacles (The History)
  • THIS WEEK'S PLAY LIST: YOUTUBE 
  • THIS WEEK’S BIBLE READINGS    March 27 - Apr. 2,  -  John 7:1-24,
  • NEXT WEEK’S BIBLE READINGS   April 3 - 9, -   John 7:25-52,

TEXT:  John 7:1-24; Ex. 23:16;  Lev. 23:33-44; Deu. 16:13-17; Heb. 11:13:16; Is. 12:3

 

IN A NUTSHELL: We all know Jesus kept the law without fail.  We also know that by age 12 Jesus was going to Jerusalem for the various feasts.  This means that more than likely for 20 years Jesus had come to Jerusalem with the thousands of other Jews to celebrate the Feast of Tabernacles.  He slept, ate and celebrated God's provision with his family in a Sukkot.  This Sukkot was a type of tent with loosely placed palm leaves so the stars could be seen at night. By now (in John 7) his ministry campaign, humanly speaking, was crumbling.  In recent months thousands had walked away and here we see his family subtly scoffing at his intentions to recruit disciples. The history of the Feast of Tabernacles was full of purpose.  Look to God for all hope and provisions, illustrated powerfully through the water & manna in the desert. This life is a journey, when it doesn't feel like home... look up, trust Him!    

HIS LIGHT & LIFE

  1. How is the Feast of Tabernacles described at it's beginning?  Ex. 23:16;  Lev. 23:33-44; Deu. 16:13-17

  2. How did Jesus' brothers react to Jesus regarding his going to the Temple?  John 7:1-24  Does this seem strange in light of the fact the Jewish leaders are trying to kill him? 

  3. Keep in mind the context John describes for Jesus in chapters 5 & 6; the conflict, the fickleness of mankind and thousands walking away.  How would you feel about going to the required feast of tabernacles if you were Jesus?  If you were one of the disciples supporting Jesus?  How would you feel if you were one of Jesus' brothers and the Jewish rulers were wanting to kill your brother? 

  4. What is the significance of the "Water LIbation" taking place during the feast of Tabernacles? Is. 12:3 

  5. What does Heb. 11:13 tell us about people who live by faith?

     

HIS LIGHT IN MY LIFE

  1. Can you describe a period of time in your life where you thought you were trying extra hard to do the right thing but it seemed like nothing was working out like it should?  

  2. How did your situation finally work out?  Were there any faith lessons you learned about yourself, about God during that time?

  3. Are there any particular religious traditions or rituals that seem confusing or empty to you? 

  4. Do you celebrate in particular traditions or rituals that remind you to "look up", to think about how He has provided for you or other believers in the past?

  5. Why do you think John included the account of Jesus' brothers skeptical responses in a book supposedly written to promote confidence and faith in Jesus?

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